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Dating multiple people, or having an alternative relationship, sounds like a great option if you have feelings for more than one person.
But there are important things to consider, like brushing up on what’s important in a relationship and how to deal with the green-eyed monster, jealousy.
You’ve probably never gotten this real with people. There are too many wonderful, beautiful people for me to shut any doors.
You are a piece of shit if you lie about this because you WILL devastate girls. I love my best friend, but if he told me to drop all my other friends and go exclusive with him, it would be over.
One last thing, for any non-closed relationship: Do NOT ever hide that you are seeing other people. It doesn’t matter how black and white you were about “never dating exclusively” in the beginning. So be aware and deal with feelings of confusion or jealousy openly. Candid communication is the bedrock of any successful long-term (open) relationship. This means you need to seriously assess if she is emotionally handling the “openness” well. It may go without saying, but you should be willing to let her see other guys.
If you’re hiding something it means that you think it deserves to be hidden. News flash: one conversation 2 months in about the status of your relationship does not represent a binding contract. You’re probably going to have to work on your own jealousy, which is a whole ‘nother ball game.
Learn to recognise and deal with jealousy The word ‘jealousy’ describes a mixed bag of horrible feelings, including: Usually this feels so bad, we’ll do anything we can to avoid it.
One way we do this is by blaming others and their actions for how we are feeling.
It’s important to protect your partner’s and your own emotional health and wellbeing before anything else.Always be respectful of others’ feelings and choices If you’re not sure of how someone feels about you, ask them. If someone loves you, then they will want for you to be happy.